Unmarked Graves: 61 Names, One Unforgettable Act of Love

When the town of Carrow, Nebraska, voted to sell an “empty” acre for $18,000, almost no one realized the ground held unmarked graves. One person did. Seventy-nine-year-old Wilma Krause knew sixty-one people were buried there, and she set out to prove it one painted stone at a time.

Unmarked Graves Under an “Empty” Acre

It began on a Monday night at city hall. Mayor Dick Farris told the small crowd that nobody was buried in the back acre of the town cemetery. He said the town had mowed that grass for fifty years for nobody.

A buyer named Mr. Stroud sat in the front row with a folder under his cap. He owned storage units in two other towns in the county. The sale would bring in $18,000, and the cemetery fund held only $2,100.

The mayor also pointed out that the town’s mower was nineteen years old. The deed showed the land had come to the town from the county in 1931, after the poor farm closed. On paper it was a plain lot with no burials.

Wilma had served on the council for eleven years. She told the room that the poor farm had buried sixty-one people there over forty-four years. The county’s burial register had burned with the old courthouse in 1934, so she had no official proof.

The mayor said he could not run a town on what somebody remembered hearing. The motion passed four to one, with Wilma the lone “no.” Someone in the back laughed, and the laugh stung more than anger would have, because the unmarked graves did not exist as far as the paperwork was concerned.

A Notebook Nobody Would Accept

Wilma’s daughter, Beth Ann, drove her home that night. Wilma stared at the lights on the grain elevator and said she did not want to talk. At her house she walked to the shed and came back with a garden trowel and a red coffee can, which she set side by side on the porch step.

The next morning Beth Ann found her mother thinning leftover white porch paint. Nearby sat a small brush, a jar of black enamel, and a green stenographer’s notebook worn soft as cloth. There was also her late husband’s tile probe, a four-foot steel rod that farmers use to find buried drainage tile.

In a little red wagon lay four fieldstones from her peony bed. Beth Ann argued hard. Wilma had dug one hole, there were sixty-one graves, and Mr. Stroud wanted to close on November 14, before the ground froze.

Wilma knew the arithmetic. She had already called the state in August and was told to send a request in writing, with someone perhaps visiting in spring. The county clerk had said she could not enter a handwritten copy of a book nobody could produce.

The newspaper had also turned her away, saying it could not print sixty-one graves on the strength of a notebook. To every office she visited, the unmarked graves were a rumor. Wilma decided a stone with a name on it would be harder to argue with, because people would have to stand in front of it first.

How a Notebook Revealed the Unmarked Graves

The notebook had a history. In June 1968, Wilma was twenty-one and worked as the junior girl in the county clerk’s office. The poor farm superintendent had kept his own burial book at home, and after his daughter died, her family carried his papers into the courthouse in apple boxes.

The cover was gone and mice had been at the pages. The book was headed for the dump. Wilma copied every entry during her lunch hours, and it took her nine days.

Each line gave a number, a name, an age, a date, a cause of death, and a row and place. The first was Peter Hale, a laborer who died in 1887. The last, Number 61, was recorded in 1931.

But how could she know the graves lay where the book said? Wilma sent Beth Ann to the fence corner, where the stub of an old hedge post stood hidden in the tall grass. The book said row one began eight feet east of that post.

Then she handed over the tile probe. In ground nobody had ever dug, it stopped after about ten inches in hard clay. Four feet away it sank past Beth Ann’s wrists, which meant the soil had been opened once and filled back in.

The next morning Beth Ann returned as the sun rose over the corn. With the light lying low across the grass, she saw long, shallow dips in neat rows, like the dents a heavy quilt leaves on a bed. The unmarked graves had been there her entire life, and she had walked past them every Decoration Day.

One Stone a Day on the Unmarked Graves

That night Beth Ann read the whole notebook at her kitchen table. One line described the infant son of Mary Dolan, who lived two days in 1919. Another named Clara Timm, aged nineteen, who died in childbed in 1926.

A third named Emil Stroud, a farmhand brought sick from the county jail in 1928. And a fourth, Ida Marie Becker, a widow who died in 1930, had a small penciled star beside her name. It was the only such mark in the book.

The routine began the next day. Wilma found each place with the book and the probe. Beth Ann cut the sod and bedded the stone, and Wilma lettered the previous day’s stone in black enamel before painting the new one white.

She insisted on doing it from the ground, because painting a person’s stone while standing over it was not decent. Her knees allowed only one stone a day. She also refused to leave a blank white rock on anyone overnight.

Beth Ann’s husband, Jeff, was running the grain cart that harvest and said little. Then he asked how many rocks she needed and brought a pickup load from a neighbor’s old rock pile, picked for shape. Their twenty-year-old daughter, Kayla, came home, lettered two stones, and painted a small lamb under the infant’s name.

The Town Rallies Around the Unmarked Graves

A young reporter named Kim then photographed Wilma on her knees beside the red wagon, with seven white stones behind her. The caption ran on the front page that Wednesday. It simply said she believed the poor farm had buried sixty-one people there and that the council had voted to sell the acre.

By Thursday a ninety-one-year-old neighbor named Walt arrived with his grandson. He remembered white crosses on the ground from his boyhood, and he pointed his cane straight at the old hedge post. His memory matched the notebook exactly.

A local monument maker, Tom Yoder, offered flush gray granite markers cut from leftover stone for forty-five dollars each, just enough to cover his costs. He promised a dozen a week, with the rest finished by spring. A coffee can labeled “Back Acre” appeared at the cafe, and one council member who had voted yes dropped in a twenty.

On the first Saturday, fifteen people came with trowels and probes. By noon they had pushed sixty-one orange flags into the grass, and nobody said much. A week later more than forty people filled the lane.

Larry Timm, who had voted aye, came late and alone. He stood at the stone for Clara Timm, the nineteen-year-old, and said his family had been told she moved away. Beth Ann handed him her trowel, and the unmarked graves finally had a relative standing at one of them.

The Secret in Row Four

Around eleven that morning, the crew in row four found a flag with no stone beside it. Wilma said that one was hers. She had saved the last peony stone from the start and carried it herself, with Beth Ann walking beside her.

She knelt, cut the sod, and lettered the name Ida Marie Becker, 1930. Ida Marie was her father’s mother. The family had lost its farm in 1928, and her father, then seventeen, went to hire out in another county.

His mother had a bad heart, so the county took her in. By the time word reached him, she had been buried for two weeks. He never spoke her name to his daughter.

Wilma had found it in the apple box at twenty-one. She told Beth Ann she copied the first forty-seven names so she could keep the forty-eighth. Beth Ann then remembered the Decoration Days when her mother set a jar of peonies in the plain grass, saying only that they were for whoever was out there.

As the afternoon went on, Mr. Stroud pulled up alone in a white pickup. He read every stone, row by row, and stopped at row four. There he found a name that was his own: Emil Stroud, his great-uncle.

He explained that the family had been told Emil drifted to Oregon, and his grandfather had written letters there into the fifties. He also said he had not known the ground was occupied. Wilma answered that she believed neither he nor the mayor had lied, only that nobody had looked.

Then she held out her trowel, blade first. He took it, knelt in his good wool coat, and set the stone for a man named John Pratt, who was no kin to him at all.

How the Town Made Amends

The next Monday, about two hundred people packed the fire hall. Darlene Voss moved to rescind the sale, saying she had voted yes because she was told the ground was empty. Then the clerk called the roll, and the vote was six to nothing, with Wilma’s aye last.

Larry Timm added that the town still needed a mower, and that part had never been a lie. The mayor then apologized to Wilma and asked that his words be entered in the minutes beside his earlier remarks. She thanked him and told the room to go out and read the names.

Mr. Stroud tore up his claim by returning the purchase agreement. He said he had room for storage units on his own land, and he offered the road rock he had already ordered for the cemetery lane. The coffee can raised $4,100.

Tom Yoder collected only his costs and delivered the remaining markers in April. That same month, the council voted to plat the acre officially as a cemetery. On paper and on the ground, the unmarked graves had names.

Dick Farris mowed the last time that fall with his own push mower. Wilma watched his truck from the road and let him work alone. In the first frost she rinsed out the coffee can, hung up the tile probe, and planned to carry peonies to row four in May.

Lessons From the Unmarked Graves

Wilma’s story shows how easily forgotten people can vanish from the record. Paper burns, and a deed that says “empty” can be wrong. Her own notebook, copied from a book headed for the dump, was the only trail left.

Anyone who suspects unmarked graves on land in their own community can start by gathering old registers and asking elders. The Nebraska State Historical Society offers guidance on preserving local history, and those organizing records or meeting notes may find useful templates at Sample PDF File.

The unmarked graves of Carrow have names now, painted white or cut in gray granite. A town that nearly sold them is now committed to keeping them. Wilma Krause’s quiet stubbornness showed that sixty-one people who once had no one finally had a whole community.

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